Meet the Mommy [Week 6] – Mira

A while back I was thinking about how all the moms I know are different in many ways – be it their parenting style, or whether they go to work, stay at home, or work from home. Some have one little person, while others have three or four. Some of our babies began their journey inside us learning the sound of our heartbeat, whilst some began in another only to meet us later and hold our hearts forever. Whatever the differences in how we became moms, how we parent… Being a mom, plus ALL that comes with it, is what we all have in common.

And that’s how I came up with the idea for this feature – a short interview (short, because for moms, the time struggle is real yo!) with regular moms like you and I. Here we’ll get to “meet” different mommies, and find out a little about them.

This week we meet another mommy blogger, Mira. Mira blogs about mom life, travel, great food, and events. I’m so happy to feature her here today. 🙂

1. Please tell us a little – or a lot (we like details) – about yourself?

I am Mira Naidu, a Real Life Mum. I have an Honours degree in Supply chain management and currently working in the telecommunications industry. I am a first time mum to Keshav who is now 16 months old. We love the outdoors, travel and holidays.

Meet mommy - Mira

2. What’s the one thing you find most challenging about being a working / stay at home mom?

The most challenging thing being a working mum, is finding the work-home balance. There are not enough hours in a day, and just so much to do. I look forward to the weekend where I usually plan some downtime.

3. We all know there are challenging moments – moments which call for chocolate, or wine (or both), to soothe those mommy nerves… Forgetting all that though, what is your absolute favourite thing about being a mom?

My favourite thing about being a mum is watching my son learn and grow. He loves the outdoors and we try to take him outdoors to let him use up all his energy.

Meet mommy - Mira

4. From the experience you’ve gained since becoming a parent, what is a pretty cool piece of advice you would give to other moms?

Take one day at a time. Initially I was so overwhelmed by the responsibilities and how my life changed, but it gets easier with time.

5. Share with us one of the funniest moments you’ve had since becoming a mom.

I have had my fair share of funny moments with my son, he always makes us smile. He loves playing with bigger kids, and I find it funny when we are out there on the field and he approaches the kids saying hi and waving. It’s the cutest thing.

6. Please tell us where we can find you online.

My blog: Real Life Mum, and Facebook.

Meet mommy - Mira

Thank you Mira for giving us a glimpse into your life as a mom. 🙂

​We booked an EARLY morning flight… We’re probably never doing that again. 

Early morning flight

Last Thursday, we flew to Cape Town (yaaaaayyy!)… at 5:55 in the morning (eeek!). It may not sound all that bad for those of you living close to an airport. We, however, live 160 kilometers from this airport. 🙈

Also, none of us are early risers. Here’s why:

1. Shawn works a whole 6 minutes away from home. Even if he wakes up at 7:15am, he’ll still get to the office on time.

2. Zee gave up her daytime nap at the age of 3 and a half. Seeing as the only time she actually sleeps is at night, I always let her sleep in, in the mornings. Rest is good for her little body and mind, and that’s how I make sure she gets enough of it. Homeschooling allows for flexibility – some days we may start at 9:00am, and others later. It all depends on when my little sleeping beauty awakens.

3. Most nights we get to bed pretty late.

4. I just don’t like waking up early. 😋

Wednesday night

Back to last week… On Wednesday night Shawn and I were so worried we may not hear our alarms in the morning, and would miss our flight, that we barely slept! Seriously – I got in an hour, and he power napped for 30 minutes! 😮  

He even got fully dressed for the next day after his shower on Wednesday night. I had dressed Zee after bath time too, so she’d be ready to go in the morning. I couldn’t do the same, as it would’ve meant wearing a bra longer than I absolutely needed to, and that’s just not how I do. 

Early morning flight

Thursday morning

So there we were, at 3:00am, packing our bags into the car, and getting ready to leave. Being up that early is bad enough, being up that early in the middle of Winter is just painful. We let Zee sleep, and she eventually woke up on her own anyway. She’s never been up that early, poor kid looked so confused. As soon as she realized what day it was though, the excitement set in. “Mommy, daddy, we’re going to Cape Town!” 🙂

By 3:55am, we were all in the car. Of course, this was the day our gate motor decided to act up. The gate opened halfway, stopped, and made a loud noise. This had happened before, but those times we weren’t rushing to board an airplane! Fortunately, it worked again after Shawn’s first attempt at fixing it, and we could get on the road. It’s now 4:05am. Oh, did I mention that as we were about to leave the house, I’d started to feel nauseous? The gate delay only seemed to make it worse. Awesome.

We’d never used Lanseria International before, so I checked the distance on Google Maps… the arrival time worried me – 5:40am… exactly the same time boarding was scheduled to close. Oh. My. Goodness. The only positive thing I could think of was that I’d at least checked in online the day before. As Shawn drove, I kept watching that arrival time… 5:36… 5:41…5:27… 5:40… Nausea… crazy, crazy, stress induced nausea.

Thanks to my husband’s brilliant driving (high 5 babe), we were finally there, and parked safely in long term parking… at 5:25am (fuel stop included… oh ja, I knew I forgot something – on our already rushed and eventful trip, we almost ran out of fuel too). 

A golf cart left with two other people just as we were getting out of the car, which meant we grabbed our bags and started running! The golf cart was on its way back as we ran, so we jumped on and headed to departures. Don’t think we’d ever gone through security and boarded so fast before! 

Nausea update: it literally disappeared as soon as we stepped on that plane! Poor Shawn knocked out as soon as he was in his seat – exhaustion and stress will do that to you. I dozed off a few times, but my head kept flopping forward, and I woke up each time with a very sore neck. 

As for Zee, our little person didn’t sleep at all! Once we were seated, she told me that she was super excited as it had been “sooo long” (2 years) since our last flight. She was determined to experience it all, so she was wide awake the entire flight. She adored the bright city lights when the plane took off, loved seeing we were in the fluffy clouds once it got brighter, and she was thrilled when we were above Cape Town and she could see the ocean.

So, all in all things worked out okay that morning. And having a proper long first day in our fave SA city was definitely a bonus. Still, I’m not sure I’d book a flight like that again… I mean we’re not morning people, we should embrace that. It was a brilliant, full day in Cape Town though, so maybe we will do a 6am flight again. But probably not. 😉



** WIN ** Tickets to Transformers Animatronics: The Exhibition (2 x family packages worth R400 each)


This month marks 10 years since the release of Transformers, the first in a series of films based on the Hasbro toys. The 2007 film was the first, and also the best in the series (this is my opinion, but let’s face it, it’s the truth 😉). Yes there were flaws, but these are nanoscopic when compared to the brilliance that is the film as a whole. I’ve watched all of the Transformers films, with the exception of The Last Knight (because, parents), but I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve watched the first one. From the funny one-liners… to seeing them all transform for the first time… Optimus giving the iconic command, “Autobots, roll out!”… and the unmistakable intro to Linkin Park’s What I’ve Done at the end, before the credits roll… it all makes for an absolutely unforgettable film!

Of all the characters, Optimus is my favourite and Shawn’s (the film is THAT good – you get emotionally attached to a truck!), and Bumblebee is Zee’s. Mega fans that we are, you can just imagine the excitement when we got the chance to see these guys up close at Transformers Animatronics: The Exhibition!



Transformers Animatronics: The Exhibition is in South Africa for the first time! It is a walk through exhibition depicting the Transformers from the iconic 1980’s toy line, to the animated Rescue Bots, and finally incredible, towering sculptures which represent the Transformers we see in the film series. The exhibition features sculptures of varying sizes, some up to 11m tall (wow!), all made from re-used car parts, metal and other repurposed materials.

After an amazing 3 months at Emperors in Johannesburg, the Autobots and Decepticons have now arrived in Centurion, just in time for the Winter school holidays! They’ll be at Centurion Mall until 15 October 2017.

** WIN ** 

I have 2 sets of family tickets (2 adults + 2 kids) worth R400 each, to give away to 2 moms (or dads) to Transformers Animatronics in Centurion! 😀

To enter:

~ Like High Heels And Fairy Tales Facebook page, and tag 2 friends on the giveaway post (pinned to the top of the Facebook page)

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Happy entering! Winners will be announced on Friday, 30 June.